Actually, real life did happen, i even tried to explain it to him. To which he replied i was lieing and still reported me, apparently with screen shots and all according to him. To be honest i never even thought about field clearing bonuses before and such, i used to leave roids open all the time in live when i had to go do something real quick. Not because i wanted to make it difficult for anyone, just because it didn't matter all that much.
As for annoying people, sure it's not good, but this is just a game. People will be annoyed by other people. Heck, i find some people's personalities abrasive even. That's life. If i went around trying not to annoy anyone im sure people might like me but id be afraid to do anything. My point is that sure, reporting people is good for when there is a bad problem or something that can't be solved nicely, so on and so fourth. It shouldn't be used because someone does something you don't like. We all play differently, have different real life matters to attend to and some times the game isn't the priority.
The reason for the post on the forum was just to point out that some people need to take a breath and realize it's just a game. Taking things too seriously is bad for your health when this is supposed to be something fun to do. Carrying on and annoying everyone is not the correct response to something that bothers you. Nore is griefing someone or trying to chastise them over something that may seem big to you, but in reality the 1200 XP you might have lost or something isn't going to make or break you.
The point of the post was not only to make me feel better but to pass along the advice: Calm down guys, playing a game is not a job.